I believe in love! I am not talking Romance Novels but true love. I have been married 8 years and the time has flown by. They have been very happy years. Yes obviously we also have our ups and downs but when it comes to it, we are still pretty much madly in love. People often comment to us how unusual it is to see a married couple still holding hands and kissing. We still whisper sweet nothing and we have made it a point to not lose any of the romance we had while dating. After all it is the fun part of being in love.
Do you know that he still buys me flowers regularly and I might do silly little things like slip a note in his wallet, or wait for him in some silky new underwear on our bed! It keeps the romance alive. And I still get butterflies occasionally!
It is after all, about give and take. You cannot just expect to receive. You also need to be able to forgive. If you cannot forgive and forget, how can you expect your partner too? It is about cherishing each other for your good points and ignoring the bad. It is about cuddling and making up. It is about the gratitude that I feel, that my husband lets me be the shopaholic that I am!